24 year old virgin!
“Some of the advice people are giving are horrible, especially about letting girls know your a virgin. DON’T DO THAT! Let girls know very little about you.
From the first post, you problem is your just not aggressive enough. A man takes action, does not wait for the woman to make the first move. The girl you dated for 2 months was probably just waiting for you to MAN UP and just take what you WANT(kiss/sex etc)!
I can probably bet your awkward in some way. You are either timid, scared and always in the place you want to be, comfortable. Deep down you were too scared to take a risk and go for it because its somthing uncomfortable.
And I really don’t like where your placing your virginity. ‘Get it over and done with?’ I don’t see how this approach will make you better with women in the future. One of my mates went through the route you are thinking about (just getting it over and done with, with a slut) and you know where is he in terms of pulling tail? Right where he was before he lost his virginity. His problem is, is that his timid (his dull, not exciting), his passive etc.
Your going about this all wrong, you need to change the way you think.”
grandmas boy, step brother, Hope they serve beer in the hell
it’s interesting to read women’s expectation of men. so I will know better of what aspect of me is good and what aspect is not. try to improve what I can and accept what i cannot. so here below is copied from some online dating website.
“I’m not superficial, so I’m not looking for the hottest man alive. However I am looking for someone who is well put together, hygienic, and more closer to my age. I am attracted to men who dress well, more specifically who don’t have juvenile attire. I am charmed by a man with great personality. I love goofy men and men who have empathy, passion, wit, intellect, humor, discipline and respect. Attributes that I find highly attractive in a man, are those who are insecure, idle, ignorant, boring, sensitive, controlling, indecisive, and cowardly. I love adventurous go getter men who know exactly what they want to do in life and know how to enjoy themselves regardless of where they are. I love men who cherish themselves, their families, and friends but also know how to incorporate in cherishing a woman in their life as well. I am basically looking for a man who won’t be an utter disappointment to me, and the effort I am willing to put into a relationship.”